How Many Soulmates Can You Have?

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | October 8th, 2009 | 3 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships

How Many Soulmates Can You Have?

Dear Arielle & Brian,

I am reading The Soulmate Secret and doing the exercises you suggest. Now I am wondering, how many soulmates can we have in this life because I am feeling a connection and seeing more than one person as a potential soulmate? The bottom line here is: How am I going to know who is the one? Any advice is greatly appreciated!


Dear Maria,

You are right. We do have the possibility of many soulmates in a lifetime. How much fun is that? There is no set number, just a nourished soul — YOU!

If you have made your soulmate wish list, that will help you determine who the right person might be for you. They should definitely match the most important elements on your list. There should be powerful chemistry and mutual, shared visions for a healthy and loving life together.

Once you align your list with someone and actually meet them, you probably will get severe “goose bumps.” From the deepest depths of your heart and soul, there will be a loud and courageous: “YES, this is the one. This is how it happens!” “YES, I’m going to TRUST this voice and acknowledgment from source.” “YES, I’m going to discern from my heart and soul as I move forward that this inner voice will assist me in determining if this brand new relationship blossoms and flourishes or maybe just settles into a wonderful friendship.”

Maria, it doesn’t get any better than that does it?

Best wishes and please know we’re sending you lots of love and support in your amazing quest for Big Love.

Arielle & Brian

Email your questions about life, love and relationships to Arielle & Brian at


  1. hi,

    i found my soulmate in my ex gf, i spend my whole life searching for something and the moment i kissed her for the first time i knew in my heart this was the girl ive been looking for, but it didnt work out due to time we were appart:(, so im wondering if i have another?, as still have the feeling il be with her, but is it just wishful thinking?

    rob | October 29th, 2009 | Comment Permalink
  2. is it possible to meet your soulmate in an odd situation.. like he’s your friend, but already has girlfriend, and he’s different religion, but the moment you spent always click to one another… he knows you as you knows him.. is that possible?

    keira | November 2nd, 2009 | Comment Permalink
  3. Keira, if u have figured that situation out, please let me know. I am currently in the exact same situation… :). And from your picture I think you and me are the same religion too :-)

    nura | December 10th, 2011 | Comment Permalink

Post a Comment

If you want to show your picture with your comment, go get a gravatar!