Why Is Finding Love Easier for Some People?

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | August 13th, 2009 | 1 Comment
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships

Dear Arielle & Brian,

I have been fortunate enough to come across your recent work, The Soulmate Secret. The guidance you provide is sound and amazingly simple. The ideas suggest much of what the Hindu religion teaches, of which I am a faithful follower. I find it very refreshing!

I hope to further seek your insight on a question that may innately seem contrary to what you are trying to teach in your book, but plagues me nonetheless. As I was reading, I kept wondering to myself, why are there individuals whom love seems to elude, but then there are others who — without the use of feng shui, living as if, or any of the other suggestions you offer — just find, with minimal to no effort, what most of us are searching for? At the risk of sounding ungrateful, it is frustrating and unfair to know that without having done anything wrong, someone like myself is put in the position of constantly wanting something that just falls into many others’ laps.

I have discussed the issue at great lengths with a few of my close friends, and while comforting and supportive, there has been little progress in my journey toward coming to terms with this disparity and understanding it for what it is. I am hoping you might be able to find a moment to share with me your thoughts on the matter.

I do appreciate your time and I look forward to hearing from you!



Hi Mallika,

We think the simple answer is Karma. Please continue to be grateful for your beauty, intuition and intelligence and TRUST that there is good reason why it isn’t “easy” and “know” that YOU DO have the power to manifest the love of your life. Also be patient and know that you are not in charge — SPIRIT is and it does not operate in our time/space dimension.

We would suggest focusing more on your own personal growth and self love, nurturing more and “FEELING” what it will be like when that Beautiful, Aware, Conscious, Loving Man shows up for you in such a big way that it will immediately dissolve any time to wonder or worry about what other people are doing with their love lives — you will be having too much fun living out your own dreams.

Mallika, please know we’re your biggest fans and that we’re holding a powerful loving intention that your Soulmate is nearby and your hearts will connect soon.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle and Brian

Email your questions about life, love and relationships to Arielle & Brian at soulmatesecret@yahoo.com.


  1. At times couples are squabbing over money matters and their relationships affects a lot because of this. i too was one of the victim to this and i was adviced by one of my friend to get rid of this and i did …

    i thought the same way as you did a few months back when i and my partner had some issues on money matters and our relationship seemed like it is gonna sink and i went into depression and only on one day my friend made me realize how i could overcome my issue with this.
    And it worked for me and now, we are a happily living couple.

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