Timing Is Everything: What to Do When Your Soulmate’s Not Showing Up on Time

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | November 23rd, 2010 | 4 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships

Woman with a clock on her headHello Arielle and Brian,

I have a question for you I am hoping you can clarify. I have placed my order with the Universe for a soulmate. I’ve noticed that many people manifest at different time frames, some very fast, while others take a long time. It’s been more than a year since I placed my order and my soulmate has still not arrived. Does this mean that I am doing something wrong, or the Universe feels I am not ready? Any help would be appreciated. I am stumped on this.



Dear Cindy,

Please remember the role that Divine Timing plays in all of life. While you may feel that you are absolutely ready for a soulmate right now, the Universe, Karma, God, Goddess, the forces of Good, your angels, devas and ancestors (or whoever and whatever you believe in) may have picked out the most perfect person for you but it’s just not time for you two to get together … yet. Can you be patient? Can you love your life right now? And yourself? Can you find new ways to savor the waiting? Can you dream up new ways to give more love to the friends, family and co-workers already surrounding you? Have you truly released and healed any barriers to love within yourself, or is there someone you have yet to forgive (hint: maybe yourself)?

Here’s one thing we can promise you:  When you do finally meet your soulmate, you will inevitably discover that it was the perfect time for both of you and you will also know that he or she was worth the wait!

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle & Brian

Arielle Ford, author of The Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of Your Life with The Law of Attraction and her husband Brian Hilliard, a business consultant, answer your questions about life, love and relationships. They believe that whether you are eighteen or eighty years old, finding Big Love is always possible. Email your questions to: soulmatesecret@yahoo.com.

Disclaimer: Arielle Ford, Brian Hilliard, the Big Love column and its publishers assume no responsibility for any consequence relating directly or indirectly to any action or inaction you take based on the information, services or other material related to this column.


  1. Your response is comforting

    Olusegun | November 27th, 2010 | Comment Permalink
  2. I’m sooo blown away right now, I’m most definitely seeing myself more clearer now:)
    Thank you so much for sharing your light with me!
    Jackie Mabalane(south africa)

    Jackie mabalsne | February 14th, 2011 | Comment Permalink
  3. very true, everything has their own time. God is not cruel, he wont allow me do die without meeting my soulmate.
    Mokete Moetela

    mokete | April 24th, 2012 | Comment Permalink
  4. I stumbled across this today and just wanted you to know how much I needed to read this, to know that other people are impatient like me but there is still hope. Thank you for your wise words and reassurance. Humbled and cherishing, Alexa. x

    Alexa | February 25th, 2013 | Comment Permalink

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