The Soulmate Secret

Can Everyone Attract a Soulmate?

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | May 12th, 2012 | 2 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: attracting love, dating, finding love, finding your soulmate, HOPE, how to attract your soulmate, intention, intuition, law of attraction, manifestation, relationship advice, Relationships, self-love, The Soulmate Secret

AriellefeatureDear Arielle & Brian,

I am 46 years old and am working on manifesting in my life my ideal soulmate. I know others who have found love through dating Web sites, but I’ve chosen to work on the Law of Attraction, which I discovered last year. I’m very clear about what I’m looking for in a woman. My biggest deficit is I’ve yet to experience a romantic relationship in my life. I’ve been working doing the suggested “feelingizations” and creating space. Yet I really don’t know how to start taking action or what I can do to manifest that special woman.

Is it Wise to Reconnect?

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | March 14th, 2012 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: advice column, dating an ex, healing, intention, law of attraction, love, marriage, past lovers, reconnect, Relationships, soulmate, The Soulmate Secret

thoughtful womanDear Arielle & Brian,

Since I read The Soulmate Secret, did the exercises to heal my past relationships and cut the energetic cords to past lovers, four of my old boyfriends and my former husband have called wanting to reconnect with me. What’s up with that?

Thanks for your help,

Cindy

How Important Is Chemistry in Love?

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | January 19th, 2012 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: Arielle Ford, Big Love, chemistry, compatibility, desire, how to attract your soulmate, love, marriage, Relationships, romance, soul mate, soulmate, The Soulmate Secret

Dear Arielle & Brian,

I am 46 years old and unmarried. Last summer, I connected with someone online and we both felt we were soulmates, brought together by divine intervention. Two months later he decided to fly 5,000 miles to come meet me, with an understanding that the meeting was just to see each other at least once and get comfortable.

Upon our meeting, the guy felt there was no chemistry. Because we had so much in common, I was willing to give it a try, but he wasn’t, although he did want to keep in touch and remain friends, which I said no to.

Arielle and Brian, why does this happen? Is it right to give up so much in common for chemistry? Was this guy not really my soulmate? I am confused.

Find the Freedom in Forgiveness

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | December 19th, 2011 | No Comments
topic: Relationships | tags: Arielle Ford, betrayal, Big Love, divorce, forgiveness, happiness, how to attract your soulmate, love, Relationships, single, soulmate, spirituality, The Soulmate Secret

EnvelopeDear Arielle and Brian,

I was married for 30 years and it was always a difficult relationship. I learned many important life lessons throughout it all — even how to forgive betrayal, though we eventually divorced. For the past seven years I have been enjoying my single life, meeting lots of new friends, traveling, redecorating my home, growing spiritually … but this past summer I found out that my ex, now 59, had been living with a woman 20 years younger than him, and she is having his child. (We have two children together, now ages 27 and 29.) The idea that he had started over with a new family hit me hard and brought up much anger, resentment and feelings that he doesn’t deserve happiness. I know this is selfish and un-Christian of me but this is how I am feeling right now. I am in therapy and I have spiritual direction as well, but how do I get to forgiveness? I really want to manifest a new soulmate!

God bless you!

Abigail

Is Your Family Sabotaging Your Chances for a Soulmate?

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | December 13th, 2011 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: Arielle Ford, attracting love, change, emotional, envy, family, finding your soulmate, love, Personal Relationships, positive change, relationship advice, Relationships, soulmate, The Soulmate Secret, threatened

Helping Hands

Dear Arielle and Brian,

I’ve made some important changes in my life, especially when it comes to manifesting a soulmate, and I’ve begun to have a positive and proactive attitude. I am noticing how many people in my life, particularly my mother, are having a real issue with my change. Perhaps she is jealous because she has been single for 16 years. Lately, she is very condescending towards me and seems very passive aggressive. Here’s my question: Is it normal when one changes for others have a real issue with it? Is it because they feel threatened? It seems like I never fully realized before the limited thinking, undeserving attitude and pessimism that surrounds me.

Thank you,

Nicole

Relationship Detox: “How Do I Get Over Him?”

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | September 20th, 2011 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: Arielle Ford, broken heart, cheating, dating, emotional healing, ex, heartbreak, how to handle emotional pain, infidelity, love, marriage, obsession, Personal Relationships, Relationships, sex, soul mate, soulmate, The Soulmate Secret

Big Love Get Over Him

Dear Arielle and Brian,

My fiancé and I were together for five years. I thought he was my soul mate and we were planning to get married. But last month he told me that hes in love with someone else even though he says he still loves me. I can’t accept the fact that he has been unfaithful and claims to love another. I feel so devastated and shocked because I always felt that he’s the One for me.

What can I do to overcome my emotions and obsession with him?

Timing Is Everything: What to Do When Your Soulmate’s Not Showing Up on Time

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | November 23rd, 2010 | 4 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: Arielle Ford, attracting love, divine timing, finding your soulmate, love, manifestation, patience, Relationships, romance, searching for love, soul mate, soulmate, The Soulmate Secret, waiting for love

Woman with a clock on her headHello Arielle and Brian,

I have a question for you I am hoping you can clarify. I have placed my order with the Universe for a soulmate. I’ve noticed that many people manifest at different time frames, some very fast, while others take a long time. It’s been more than a year since I placed my order and my soulmate has still not arrived. Does this mean that I am doing something wrong, or the Universe feels I am not ready? Any help would be appreciated. I am stumped on this.

My Soulmate Betrayed Me … Is It Over?

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | June 18th, 2010 | 16 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: cheating, emotions, forgiveness, love, Relationships, self-love, soulmates, The Soulmate Secret

Dear Arielle & Brian,

Three months ago, I discovered that my husband of six years has been having a year-long affair with a woman he met on a trip to Phoenix where he often travels for business. He has apologized to me and swears he has broken up with this woman. I feel enraged, betrayed, devastated and heartbroken. I truly believed we were soulmates. Now he wants me to simply forgive and forget. He says he has apologized, and I need to get over it. I still love him, but I no longer trust him, and I don’t know what to do. Is it over?

What to Do When a Soulmate Can’t Put You First

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | April 20th, 2010 | 2 Comments
topic: Health & Wellness, Healthy Aging, Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: Arielle Ford, Brian Ford, dating, positive traits, Relationships, soulmate, The Soulmate Secret

Feeling neglected by your soulmate? Don't be hearbroken!

Dear Arielle and Brian,

I recently met a wonderful man who seems to understand me. We like the same things, but he walked away because his sister is sick and he will be taking care of her. I am very sad about this and told him so. I asked that he keep in touch; he said he would like to do that.

6 Questions to Help You Attract Your Soulmate

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | October 26th, 2009 | 1 Comment
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: attracting love, destiny, finding love, finding your soulmate, how to attract your soulmate, intention, intuition, manifestation, relationship advice, self-love, The Soulmate Secret

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Dear Arielle & Brian,

I keep visualizing my soulmate and feel really open to him, and nothing is happening. What am I doing wrong?

Thanks for your help,
Isabel

Dear Isabel,

Why would you assume you are doing something wrong? Opening your heart and life to manifesting a soulmate requires patience because when your will and God’s will align, that is what we call Divine Timing.