the past

6 Steps to Finding the Goodness in Life

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | March 15th, 2013 | 1 Comment
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I know that the moment you read this title, “Finding the Goodness in Life,” some of you cringed. Why? Because there is a lot going on at this point in time that would not be considered “good.” But what if, in everything, goodness existed?

I once had a client who was contemplating suicide. They did not see any reason for living and could find nothing in their life that was worthwhile. Every week, I prayed that this person would continue to show up and work with me.

Somewhere in Time, It’s Midnight in Paris

Stephen Simon by Stephen Simon | June 29th, 2011 | 1 Comment
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: Christopher Reeve, critique, Film, future, love, Midnight in Paris, movie reviews, movies, Owen Wilson, Paris, passion, past, present, Rachel McAdams, Relationships, romance, Somewhere in Time, Stephen Simon, the 1920's, the past, time travel, Woody Allen

Midnight in ParisMy wife Lauren and I were delighted to see Woody Allen’s new film, Midnight in Paris, over the weekend. The film is wonderfully entertaining, very sweet and really a lot of fun.

Owen Wilson plays a successful screenwriter who has come to Paris with his fiancée and her parents. While his fiancée sees the trip as a shopping opportunity, Mr. Wilson has a different agenda. He has always loved the notion of being a novelist, has indeed written his first book, and is enamored with the whole concept of being an artist in Paris, not a commercial “hack.” Unfortunately, his fiancée (played with great audacity and courage by Rachel McAdams) is shallow, materialistic and totally horrified that her soon-to-be husband is actually considering a career that is not based solely on making money.

Cutting the Cords to Past Relationships

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | February 23rd, 2011 | 9 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: advice column, Arielle Ford, boyfriend, break up, breakup, Brian Hilliard, dating, ex, friends, future, girlfriend, husband, law of attraction, life-coach, love, manifest, manifestation, oxytocin, physical intimacy, psychologist, relationship, romance, salt bath, sex, shower, soulmate, the past, therapist, tub, wife

Cut the cord to your past relationshipDear Arielle and Brian,

During the past year I have done many of your suggested soulmate manifestation exercises, however, I still haven’t been able to emotionally pull the cord from my past relationship with Doug. We dated for a few months and then transitioned to just “good friends” because I’m not physically attracted to him and no longer wanted to be physically intimate with him. I care deeply for him and truly enjoy our time together as friends. I feel my heart is very connected to his but I can’t seem to resolve this past relationship and move on in peace. If you have any advice I would appreciate it!

Toast to Old Times

Kim Fuller by Kim Fuller | December 29th, 2010 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: Auld Lang Syne, celebration, cheers, family, friends, memories, New Year's Eve, party, places, reflection, Relationships, resolution, Robert Burns, singing, the past, toast, toasting, travel

Women toasting the New Year with champagne

On the eve of every New Year, a familiar tune floats over bubbly toasts and festive kisses. As the clock strikes midnight and we add another notch to the belt of our years, the words of the late Scottish poet Robert Burns are sung in unison while we sway amongst friends and family.