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Find the Freedom in Forgiveness

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | December 19th, 2011 | No Comments
topic: Relationships | tags: Arielle Ford, betrayal, Big Love, divorce, forgiveness, happiness, how to attract your soulmate, love, Relationships, single, soulmate, spirituality, The Soulmate Secret

EnvelopeDear Arielle and Brian,

I was married for 30 years and it was always a difficult relationship. I learned many important life lessons throughout it all — even how to forgive betrayal, though we eventually divorced. For the past seven years I have been enjoying my single life, meeting lots of new friends, traveling, redecorating my home, growing spiritually … but this past summer I found out that my ex, now 59, had been living with a woman 20 years younger than him, and she is having his child. (We have two children together, now ages 27 and 29.) The idea that he had started over with a new family hit me hard and brought up much anger, resentment and feelings that he doesn’t deserve happiness. I know this is selfish and un-Christian of me but this is how I am feeling right now. I am in therapy and I have spiritual direction as well, but how do I get to forgiveness? I really want to manifest a new soulmate!

God bless you!

Abigail

What I Know for Sure: True Love Is Possible at Any Age

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | February 14th, 2011 | 3 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: advice column, age, aging, Arielle Ford, boyfriend, dating, destiny, divine timing, girlfriend, husband, intention, law of attraction, love, manifest, manifestation, prepare, Relationships, romance, savor the waiting, signs, single, Soulmate Secret, universe, visualization, wife

Soulmate Secret: Find your true love at any age

Here’s what I know for sure: Finding true love is possible for anyone at any age if you’re willing to prepare your self, on all levels, to become a magnet for love.

This wonderful Universe of ours is set up to deliver the people and things we draw to us that are consistent with our personal belief system. If you don’t believe you will ever find the ONE, then, guess what? You get to be right … you probably won’t.

Beginner’s Mind: One of the Secrets to Manifesting a Soulmate

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | February 3rd, 2011 | 2 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: advice column, age, Beginner's Mind, boyfriend, Buddhist, dating, destiny, Diving Timing, divorce, friends, girlfriend, happiness, heart, heartbreak, HOPE, husband, intentions, love, manifest, meditation, negativity, online dating, positive thinking, Relationships, romance, self, signs, single, soul mate, soulmate, the-secret, universe, vision, visualization, wife

Woman relaxing in the sun

What does it take to manifest the love of your life?

I’ve heard from first-time brides (at 49 and older!), from busy entrepreneurs whose 80-hour-a-week work schedules left little time for romance, and from divorcees and widowers who were convinced that the opportunity for true love had long passed them by. Whether these soulmate success stories come from Russia, Ireland, Spain, South Korea, Nova Scotia, Poland, Iran, Slovenia, Austria, Germany, Norway or the good ’ole U.S. of A., I can always spot the common theme woven throughout them: Those who have successfully manifested their soulmates did so by finding a healthy balance between intending and allowing; between doing and being.

Is Online Dating My Only Option?

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | October 11th, 2010 | 5 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: advice column, destiny, love, online dating, Relationships, romance, signs, single, soulmate, universe, visualization

Woman sitting at the computer with a cup of coffeeHello Arielle & Brian,

I constantly have people telling me that I should pursue online dating. I am not sure if this is a sign from the universe (or not) but I feel absolutely no inspiration whatsoever to do this. The idea just brings bad vibes. If you do not take the signs the universe provides, does it stop orchestrating ways of bringing you a soulmate? I know the LOA (law of attraction) is always in play, but I am still concerned that since I am not acting on the universe’s sign (because there is no inspiration), it sends a negative message to the universe.