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Can Everyone Attract a Soulmate?

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | May 12th, 2012 | 2 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: attracting love, dating, finding love, finding your soulmate, HOPE, how to attract your soulmate, intention, intuition, law of attraction, manifestation, relationship advice, Relationships, self-love, The Soulmate Secret

AriellefeatureDear Arielle & Brian,

I am 46 years old and am working on manifesting in my life my ideal soulmate. I know others who have found love through dating Web sites, but I’ve chosen to work on the Law of Attraction, which I discovered last year. I’m very clear about what I’m looking for in a woman. My biggest deficit is I’ve yet to experience a romantic relationship in my life. I’ve been working doing the suggested “feelingizations” and creating space. Yet I really don’t know how to start taking action or what I can do to manifest that special woman.

Under Her Skin: Pain Within and the Power of Hope

Jensy Scarola by Jensy Scarola | April 23rd, 2012 | 3 Comments
topic: Healthy Eating, Personal Growth, Relationships, Yoga | tags: counseling, depression, eating disorder, HOPE, light, love, marriage, meditation, parenting, post-partum depression, reader story, Relationships, stress, suicide, The Gaiam Hope Project, therapy, Yoga, yoga retreat

Jensy

In the spring of 2007, after the birth of my second beautiful daughter, I relapsed from the eating disorder and severe depression I suffered with in college.

After six months of draining the lives of so many family and friends, I decided to receive intensive therapy once and for all. I was losing my husband, alienating friends and family members and spending days and weeks inside the house. I had two little girls to take care of and I could barely take care of myself.

Lost Hope? 4 Steps to Turn Up Your “Hope Factor”

Amy Ippoliti by Amy Ippoliti | April 19th, 2012 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: death, dream, emotions, empower, feelings, grieve, HOPE, hopeless, hurt, loss, personal development, Personal Growth, pursuing dreams, Relationships

Lost Hope

To live and love is to risk getting hurt, to lose those we love, to be betrayed or victimized, and to lose hope.

But hope is most palpable when you have lost it.

Everyone experiences a period of feeling hopeless at some point in their life. For some, these feelings may last only a moment; for others, they may last for years. We can lose hope in ourselves, our community, humanity, the prospect of finding love and more.

Have you been there? Here are four steps to help you reclaim hope.

Hope on Four Legs

Cheryl Terrace by Cheryl Terrace | April 18th, 2012 | 3 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: aging, fire, golden doodle, goldendoodle, HOPE, inspiration, mother-daughter relationship, Relationships, rescue dog, tragedy

My mom’s house burned to the ground a little over a year ago. She lost everything … but it was a hidden blessing. Since my dad died a few years ago, my brother, sister and I had been trying to get Mom to move to a smaller house in a less-isolated community. She would not budge, saying, “Everything I know is here: my home, my neighbors, my life.” The fire, though tragic, took care of that.

Help: Not Your Average Four-Letter Word

YOGANONYMOUS by YOGANONYMOUS | March 16th, 2012 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: accept, acceptance, anxiety, gratitude, help, intentions, limiting beliefs, need, personal development, Personal Growth, Relationships, stress, trust, yoganonymous

YOGANONYMOUS Help Blog

by Rachel Wallmuller

I consider myself to be pretty independent, taking pride in all that I have because I’ve worked hard for it.

If you asked those closest to me, they would probably tell you I’m a little too headstrong, preferring to do things myself rather than seek help. I never really considered it like this, thinking instead that I am just successfully self-sufficient. However, in the past year or so, I’ve had to soften to the experience of seeking and accepting help. For the first time, I’m learning to lean on others more than makes me comfortable and to rest easy with accepting help.

Thinking that I’ve been doing a good job with this practice, I was shocked to feel genuine discomfort when I had to ask for help from my boyfriend recently. We’re moving in together, and we have a very solid relationship, so you’d think that asking for a little assistance would be a no-brainer…

Is it Wise to Reconnect?

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | March 14th, 2012 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: advice column, dating an ex, healing, intention, law of attraction, love, marriage, past lovers, reconnect, Relationships, soulmate, The Soulmate Secret

thoughtful womanDear Arielle & Brian,

Since I read The Soulmate Secret, did the exercises to heal my past relationships and cut the energetic cords to past lovers, four of my old boyfriends and my former husband have called wanting to reconnect with me. What’s up with that?

Thanks for your help,

Cindy

Verbal Valentines Work Wonders in Relationships

Gay and Katie Hendricks by Gay and Katie Hendricks | February 8th, 2012 | 3 Comments
topic: Relationships | tags: boyfriend, communicate, communication, compliements, emotions, feelings, girlfriend, husband, love, marriage, partner, relationship advice, Relationships, significant other, spouse, talking, Valentines Day, verbal valentines, wife

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One of the keys to healthy relationships is spoken appreciation. Other kinds of appreciation (such as touch or giving a hand with a chore) are great, too, but spoken appreciation is highly valued and easy to do. We recommend a technique we call verbal valentines, which work wonders in any kind of relationship.

We give each other 10-second verbal valentines all year long. We believe it’s one of the main reasons we’re more in love now than when we met 32 years ago. Verbal valentines are not just for lovers, either.  You can give them at work, to children, to other family members and to cherished friends.

4 Ways to Green Your Valentine’s Day

Jodi Helmer by Jodi Helmer | February 7th, 2012 | No Comments
topic: Green Living, Relationships | tags: cards, chocolates, DIY spa, eco gifts, eco-friendly restaurant, fair-trade, flowers, gifts, holiday, holidays, i love you, jewelry, locally-grown food, love, organic, organic cotton robe, out to eat, recycled paper, reflexology, Relationships, spa, Valentines Day, Valentine’s Day

istock_000005074709smallI’m a sucker for love letters and chocolate, so it should come as no surprise that I look forward to Valentine’s Day. Show a little love for your partner and the planet by having an eco-friendly holiday this February 14!

Here are four ways to do it:

Misadventures in Online Dating: Getting Started

Sarah McCluskey by Sarah McCluskey | February 6th, 2012 | 16 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: breakups, cyber love, humor, love column, misadventures in dating, online dating, online dating profile, relationship advice, Relationships, romance, social-media, socially awkward

Online DatingAt the age of 28, I decided that dating had thoroughly kicked my butt. It seemed as if 99 percent of my friends were engaged or married or having babies; meanwhile, I continued pursuing a breed of man who was never quite able to leave behind his college glory days and blatantly refused to face adulthood. It’s an irresistible combination, I know.

In my early twenties, I had the supernatural ability to hone in on this type of man in the midst of a crowd and can only blame myself for my early dating mishaps. But at some point in my mid-20s, I made a dramatic internal proclamation that I would never seek out this type of man again. But from then on they just came to me. I became the pied piper who attracts the emotionally stunted and unavailable.

The only thing worse than my actual dating history was when I made my friends listen to my tales of woe. This is why, when my friends could take no more, I was finally convinced to give the online dating scene a shot. I had recently undergone an especially rough breakup, to which my sanity, sobriety and eating habits were not responding well, so I figured I had nothing to lose.

Grace Under Fire: Finding the Courage Within to Make a Change

YOGANONYMOUS by YOGANONYMOUS | February 2nd, 2012 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships, Yoga | tags: bad habits, change, courage, emotional reactions, emotions, grace under fire, interactions, mindfulness, negative patterns, patience, positive thinking, react, Relationships, Yoga, yoganonymous

Grace Under Fire

by Tania Kazi

There comes a time in life when the old ways begin to peel and shed away.

This happens when you start to notice one too many undesirable patterns recurring in your life. You vow to change things, but the patterns keep reemerging with renewed force. The wise thing to do, one hears, is to step back, take a deep breath and reaffirm your intent to break away from the pattern. To stop doing that which repeatedly gives birth to an environment that accentuates the gray and uncertain hues of life in the core of your existence. This is where courage comes in. Lots of it.