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A Crash Course in Being Kind

Nichole Golden by Nichole Golden | February 17th, 2014 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships, Yoga | tags: Brithandaranyaka Upanishad, judgement, kind, kindness, oneness, smile, spirituality, support, uplift, uplifting, Yoga

There’s nothing more heartbreaking to me than when people are unkind to one another.

When we are young, we learn the most fundamental teachings about being human: be nice to one another, share, clean up after yourself, don’t take things that aren’t yours, etc. But it seems that when we become adults, we often forget everything that was a part of these original lessons of life. Even the yoga community is littered with heartbreaking exchanges. If unkindness is evident in a community dedicated to conscious living, I imagine it is even more insidious in other spheres.

Anxiety to Zen: An Open Letter to Yoga

Bonnie Schmidt by Bonnie Schmidt | March 18th, 2013 | 2 Comments
topic: Fitness, Personal Growth, Yoga | tags: anger, anxiety, arm balances, astavakrasana, breath, confidence, control, drive, enlightenment, euphoria, expression, forward fold, get to know yourself, going with the flow, imperfect, journey, judgement, knowledge, mistakes, new path, panic attacks, peace, poems, relinquish control, resentment, speak your mind, strong, sun salutations, tight hamstrings, tranquility, trust, truth, unique, universe, vinyasa, yoga class, yoga mat, yoga poses, yoga saved my life, yoga studio, yoga teacher training, yoga-practice

Yoga saved my life.

Pretty grand statement, I know. And perhaps other people say that, too. I guess depending on where you are in life or what you happen to be going through, there are a lot of things that can save your life. A good book could do it, a sign from the universe or maybe even a strong martini. But when I say that yoga saved my life, I mean it truly came into my life during one of the darkest moments I had ever experienced and gave me back my desire to really live — fully and entirely.

A few years back, I found myself completely paralyzed with anxiety. I couldn’t go to work, drive my car or even leave my house without a potential panic attack. This anxiety made me angry. It made me resentful. But most of all, it made me an entirely different person. I became a shell of what I used to be. A lot of people thought I’d stay that way. Full disclosure: I thought I’d stay that way too.

6 Steps to Finding the Goodness in Life

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | March 15th, 2013 | 1 Comment
topic: Inspirational Media, Personal Growth | tags: beauty, bellaspark, blossoming, busy people, choice, colorado, conscious, counsel, create a new life, defects, delayed dreams, distress, dreams, embrace challenges, enlighten up, evaluation, fort collins, fulfill your dreams, gifts, give thanks, good, good in pain, good memories, good news, goodness, gratitude, happiness, healing old energies, healing the past, international book awards, judgement, life, life's messages, little things, love, messengers, over-committed, overwhelmed, overworked, pain, past, patterns in life, perspective, positive expressions, possibilities, prayer, present, rays of light, reflections, responding, revealing your extraordinary essence, self help, situations, successful, suicide, television, the past, trust, trusting, trusting the goodness in life, uncomfortable, unhealed energies, USA book awards, workshops, worthwhile

I know that the moment you read this title, “Finding the Goodness in Life,” some of you cringed. Why? Because there is a lot going on at this point in time that would not be considered “good.” But what if, in everything, goodness existed?

I once had a client who was contemplating suicide. They did not see any reason for living and could find nothing in their life that was worthwhile. Every week, I prayed that this person would continue to show up and work with me.