communication

4 Ways to Keep the Flame Burning Year-Round

Jessica Mehring by Jessica Mehring | February 14th, 2014 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: communication, date nights, happiness, intimacy, kindness, love, marriage, respect, Valentines Day

Love isn’t the same thing as romance. Romance is one way to express love – but we can express love in so many other ways, too.

Love isn’t just a feeling. It’s not just an emotion. Love is a commitment to putting your partner at the top of your priority list. Love is intimacy at every level.

November: Films of Love and Inspiration

Spiritual Cinema Circle by Spiritual Cinema Circle | November 5th, 2013 | No Comments
topic: Inspirational Media, Personal Growth | tags: believing in miracles, blind date, cancer, communication, compassion, DVD club, films, inspiration, Jillian's Vantage, love, Michael Daube, movies, Neil Slade, November, rain forest, Revelations, school dance, Spiritual Cinema Circle, The Blue Butterfly, The Most Beautiful Thing, true story, Way of Life, William Hurt

This month’s film program is all about love and inspiration.

In Jillian’s Vantage, a couple on a blind date learn to see from one another’s perspective.

In The Most Beautiful Thing, two teenagers getting ready for the school dance teach each other about communication and compassion.

In Revelations, a man’s life is judged in an unexpected way.

October: Communication and Imagination

Spiritual Cinema Circle by Spiritual Cinema Circle | September 25th, 2013 | No Comments
topic: Inspirational Media, Personal Growth | tags: Alby Hurwit, communication, DVD club, emotional baggage, films, imagination, Imagine, Marilu Henner, memory, movies, music, October, Portugal, Relationships, Spiritual Cinema Circle, Stephen Simon, symphony, The Gambling Man, What is That?

Our films for this month focus on communication and imagination. In the high-concept short Baggage, a young man reclaims some emotional baggage he thought he had left behind for good. In The Gambling Man, we visit the inspiring real-life story of Alby Hurwit, a retired doctor who pursues his life-long dream to compose a symphony. And in What is That?, a father and son learn to reconnect.

May: A Month for Mothers

Spiritual Cinema Circle by Spiritual Cinema Circle | April 24th, 2013 | No Comments
topic: Inspirational Media, Personal Growth | tags: Chaske Spencer, communication, daughter, DVD club, family, Fetch, films, Gil Birmingham, grandmother, In Transit, Korinna Sehringer, May, mother, motherhood, mothers-day, movies, Native American, OMG, Q’orianka Kilcher, Shouting Secrets, Spiritual Cinema Circle, Stephen Simon

What does the idea of “family” mean to you?  Spiritual Cinema Circle’s May film selections explore family, identity and home.

In the short film OMG, a teenage girl and her grandmother learn to communicate in the modern age, with hilarious results. In Transit shows a touching encounter between strangers at a bus stop who find they have more in common than they think. And Fetch is the story of a young boy who is trying desperately to find his mother.

3 Steps to Perfection on Purpose

Kaedrich Olsen by Kaedrich Olsen | March 25th, 2013 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth | tags: active approach to life, acutely aware, be present, brain, choice, choices, clothes, communication, connect with yourself, consciousness, demands, ears, element, emotions, evolving perfection, exploration, explore, exploring the environment, external expectations, eyes, focus outward, full experience, fully present, future experiences, health, hear, immediate surroundings, in the moment, inspiring experiences, intent, interpretation, inward focus, knowing who you are, life creations, listen, listen to your body, listen to your life, live life to the fullest, making choices, manifest, moment, music, no judgement, not to feel, open senses, pain, passive, past choices, past experiences, perfection on purpose, personal joy, purpose, rewards, secrets, see, sensation, sense of smell, sense of touch, sensory organs, signals in the body, smell, sound, subtle signals, take in every detail, take in every moment, taste, touch, turn attention inward, whole being

You know who you are based on all of your past experiences and choices. If you choose to remain who and what you are now, and not look ahead, then you will forever be at the mercy of your own future life experiences. Instead of taking this passive approach, allow yourself to understand that you have a choice in all of your future experiences and make those choices.

Here are three ways to to take an active role in shaping your life:

Verbal Valentines Work Wonders in Relationships

Gay and Katie Hendricks by Gay and Katie Hendricks | February 8th, 2012 | 3 Comments
topic: Relationships | tags: boyfriend, communicate, communication, compliements, emotions, feelings, girlfriend, husband, love, marriage, partner, relationship advice, Relationships, significant other, spouse, talking, Valentines Day, verbal valentines, wife

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One of the keys to healthy relationships is spoken appreciation. Other kinds of appreciation (such as touch or giving a hand with a chore) are great, too, but spoken appreciation is highly valued and easy to do. We recommend a technique we call verbal valentines, which work wonders in any kind of relationship.

We give each other 10-second verbal valentines all year long. We believe it’s one of the main reasons we’re more in love now than when we met 32 years ago. Verbal valentines are not just for lovers, either.  You can give them at work, to children, to other family members and to cherished friends.

How to Make the Holidays a Time of Positive Change (Even If You’re Alone!)

Laura Day by Laura Day | November 14th, 2011 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: arguments, brother, change, christmas, communication, desires, dreams, family, father, fighting, friends, goals, Hanukkah, holidays, husband, intuition, kids, mother, new year's, parents, positive change, relationship patterns, resolutions, sister, thanksgiving, transformation, wife, winter

Happy family eating holiday dinner
You can make the holidays a time of dramatic change and healing by using your innate intuitive abilities in a conscious and directed way.

Holidays are supposed to be a time when families unite, when you are reminded of your childhood or revisit the memories of yourself over the years. You may be spending this time alone or far from home. But no matter where you are or who you are with, the holidays provide you with a unique opportunity to heal the inner patterns and relationships that have been obstructing your life and hindering your dreams.

Communication … What a Concept!

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | June 16th, 2010 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: arguments, communicating, communication, connect, connection, conversation, discussion, Relationships, talking, team-building, teamwork

Woman talking into another woman's ear

Every person I know and every company I have ever worked for has talked about communication. When you look at relationships, people say that many of the breakdowns have to do with misinterpretations or lack of clarity around communication. So, since we all know this, why aren’t we better at communicating? I believe it is because we love the concept of communication but not the challenge of it.

Turn Isolation into Connection: A tool to help you choose love

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | December 5th, 2008 | 2 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: communication, loneliness, love, Relationships, self-love

We all crave connection. We long to love and be loved. Even those of us who have been hurt or abandoned secretly hope that someone will come along to prove to us that love is real and intimacy is achievable. During the holidays we are catapulted into situations where we can see how far we have come or how far we have yet to go regarding relationships. Today I want to share a tool to help you or someone you love transform feelings of isolation by looking at connection as a choice.

How to Survive Family Gatherings

Gay and Katie Hendricks by Gay and Katie Hendricks | November 20th, 2008 | 7 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: arguments, communication, family, holidays

“I feel out of sync with my family of origin around the holidays, when I spend more time with them than usual,” wrote one reader recently. “They aren’t interested in honest communication, working on relationships, or other things that are important to me … How can I deal with this in a positive way?