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February: Love in Many Forms

Spiritual Cinema Circle by Spiritual Cinema Circle | January 23rd, 2013 | No Comments
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This month, Spiritual Cinema Circle highlights films about love in all its many forms.

A Bird of the Air is our February feature. Filmed in New Mexico, it tells the story of a solitary man (Jackson Hurst) whose life is altered by both a stray parrot and a woman (Rachel Nichols) who inspire him to ask questions about his past — and his future. A Bird of the Air was directed by Margaret Whitton and written by Roger Towne, best known as the writer of The Natural, which starred Robert Redford.

Should I Go Back to My Ex?

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | May 16th, 2011 | 3 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: Arielle Ford, break up, breakup, Brian Hilliard, conflict, dating, divorce, emotional baggage, ex-boyfriend, ex-girlfriend, exes, fighting, fights, get back together with an ex, healing, law of attraction, love, manifesting love, marriage, relationship advice, soulmate

Woman with her ex-boyfriend

Dear Arielle and Brian,

I am pretty sure that one of my ex-boyfriends is truly the one for me. We broke up about a year ago after many heated, and sometimes ugly, disagreements about how to spend our time together. Should I now try to attract him back or should I let go of any emotional baggage and try to meet someone new?

Cutting the Cords to Past Relationships

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | February 23rd, 2011 | 9 Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: advice column, Arielle Ford, boyfriend, break up, breakup, Brian Hilliard, dating, ex, friends, future, girlfriend, husband, law of attraction, life-coach, love, manifest, manifestation, oxytocin, physical intimacy, psychologist, relationship, romance, salt bath, sex, shower, soulmate, the past, therapist, tub, wife

Cut the cord to your past relationshipDear Arielle and Brian,

During the past year I have done many of your suggested soulmate manifestation exercises, however, I still haven’t been able to emotionally pull the cord from my past relationship with Doug. We dated for a few months and then transitioned to just “good friends” because I’m not physically attracted to him and no longer wanted to be physically intimate with him. I care deeply for him and truly enjoy our time together as friends. I feel my heart is very connected to his but I can’t seem to resolve this past relationship and move on in peace. If you have any advice I would appreciate it!

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

Stephen Simon by Stephen Simon | January 31st, 2011 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: break up, breakup, change, emotions, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Film, forget, heartache, heartbreak, Hollywood, letting go, love, memories, memory, movie, pain, Relationships, romance, Stephen Simon

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless MindFrom time to time, I will highlight a classic film that some — maybe even many — people might have missed. Or forgotten. Or maybe you did see it, and forgot that you asked for it to be erased it from your memory?

Imagine:

Your heart has been broken in a love relationship that ends.

Someone offers you the chance to literally erase that relationship — that person — and everything about it and them from your memory forever.

Would you do it?

Should you do it?

COULD you do it?

Such is the provocative premise of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind from 2004.

Should You Give Your All to Someone Who Doesn’t Give Back?

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | October 27th, 2010 | 1 Comment
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: Arielle Ford, boundaries, breakup, commitment, dating, generosity, giving, heartache, keeping score, love, men and women, needy, priorities, relationship advice, romance, soulmate, the law of attraction

Man and woman having a relationship fightDear Arielle & Brian,

Earlier this year I met someone who I thought was my soulmate and I gave and gave and gave. I thought he also gave, but certainly not as much as I did, even though I was not keeping score. Shortly after we started dating he lost his job and turned to me for solace and advice, and then he left me abruptly, saying he did not have the emotional stamina and strength to reciprocate the giving I was demonstrating. I was left devastated and emotionally exhausted.