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5 Steps to Emotional Spring Cleaning

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | April 13th, 2014 | 5 Comments
topic: Personal Growth | tags: affirmation, behavior, change, cleansing, clutter, emotional, emotions, intention, letting go, mental detox, negative patterns, negative thinking, negative thoughts, negativity, personal development, reactions, spring clean, spring cleaning, transformation

emotional spring cleaning

It’s the beginning of spring, when many of us become obsessed with cleaning out closets, drawers, books and clutter. I find it interesting that we are not as excited to embark on a road to “emotional cleansing.” Why not take some time this week to inventory old behaviors and patterns that keep us in a constant state of drama — and clean them out along with the dust bunnies?

How Committed Are You?

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | March 19th, 2012 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth | tags: affirm, affirmation, awareness, behavior, body, change, commit, commitment, consciousness, health, life calling, meaning, meditation, New Year’s resolutions, personal development, Personal Growth, prayer, promises, purpose, self help, soul, spiritual healing, spirituality, well-being, wellness

CommittedWe are now well into March and it has been more than two months since this year began. A lot of us made resolutions, promises and commitments to ourselves and others regarding shifting consciousness and behaviors.

I have been counseling a number of people who feel challenged with honoring their agreements. The truth is that the behaviors are stronger in the mind than the need to change. So, my question to my clients and to you is, how committed are you to being healthy, vibrant and expansive?

The Art of Healing

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | April 28th, 2011 | 4 Comments
topic: Personal Growth | tags: abundance, affirmation, anxiety, bad habits, beauty, behavior, beliefs, change, clutter, damage, doubt, emotion, energy, evolution, fear, friends, friendship, growth, healer, healing, health, inner peace, inspiration, intentions, joy, mental, mind, negativity, pain, perfection, Personal Growth, positive thinking, power, psychology, rebirth, renewal, self help, spirituality, support, thought patterns, thoughts, transformation, victim, well-being

The Art of HealingOftentimes people come to me and state that their intention is to heal. The definition of healing is to restore to health and soundness; to set right; restoration of that which is damaged to its normal function; regeneration (spiritual, revival, rebirth); and renewal of any lost part.

“The renewal of any lost part” caught my attention. During challenging times people are often seeking parts of themselves that they think have been lost, stolen or damaged. I believe that we are, inherently, whole, and that at the core of our being, beauty and peace exist. When my clients speak about wanting to heal, we explore the deep desire to remember that they are not broken or damaged goods. We talk about the fact that in every situation there is good and it is leading us back to a state of wholeness. When the Japanese mend broken objects, they fill the cracks with gold. They believe that when something is damaged and has a history, it is more beautiful. What if that were true of us? What if each and every aspect of our life stories was an essential ingredient that made us stronger and more beautiful?

An Apple a Day Keeps the Ritalin Away

Bevin Wallace by Bevin Wallace | October 27th, 2010 | 3 Comments
topic: Family Health, Health & Wellness, Healthy Eating | tags: ADHD, behavior, breakfast, children, convenience, diet, food, fruits, health, healthy snacks, junk food, kids, lunch, lunchbox, nutrition, parenting, school meals, sugar, vegetables, whole wheat

ApplesAnyone who’s ever endured spending an hour or two with kids after they’ve been trick-or-treating or collecting candy at a birthday party probably doesn’t need a medical study to tell them that there is a link between kids’ diet and behavior.