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This Does Not Belong to Me

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | May 16th, 2013 | 2 Comments
topic: Personal Growth | tags: affirmations, attachment, belonging, chant, consciousness, Cynthia James, dream, dreams, freedom, human experience, john of god, love, moment, negative energy, negative life experience, old energy, old thought patterns, old ways of being, path to freedom, peace, processing, reject, struggle, suffer, thoughts, truth, unconscious connection

I have known for some time that negative or challenging energy is not part of me. At any given moment, I can choose to accept or reject something into my life, and I have often told my students that they do not have to accept old energy and thought patterns into their lives.

Creations and Manifestations for the New Year

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | January 15th, 2013 | 3 Comments
topic: Personal Growth | tags: affirmations, As a man thinketh, beliefs project, Bettie Eadie, Brian Adams, choices, consciousness, create your life, creation, creator, desires, Embraced by the light, expansion of consciousness, extraordinary life, Gary Zukav, goal setting, good life, How to Succeed, James Allen, life as a mirror, magnificent year, manifestation, meditation, new time, new year, power of thoughts, powerful life, reality, reflections, resolutions, sabbatical, Seat of the soul, synergy, visions for the new year, world we live in, yearly reflection

new year

Happy New Year! Isn’t it wonderful that we all get to start a new time in our lives? This is the perfect time to open to the emerging “you”!

As I was doing my morning practice, I began to envision my new year. During my meditation I called in the life I want to create this year. I don’t like goal-setting and resolutions because I do not believe they create enough synergy for my life. I like the possibilities that come in the forms of what I am creating and manifesting through the expansion of my consciousness. Moving into a new year from that place allows me to fully understand that I am “creating” the life that I live.

Hope for a Weathered Heart

Kim Fuller by Kim Fuller | April 26th, 2012 | 7 Comments
topic: Health & Wellness, Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: affirmations, cry, depression, difficulty, emotion, heart, heartbreak, HOPE, positive energy, positive-thoughts, rain, SAD, tears, transformation, weathered, weathering

Hope for HeartbreakIt’s raining. The tears are streaming from my glass panes and I cannot see clearly. I knew there was a forecast for difficult conditions, but I wasn’t expecting this downpour.

It’s not the unpredictable that I don’t like. Give me sun, snow, rain or wind, and I can stand tall and adjust my layers accordingly. Any element that surprises me is just another opportunity to show strength, perseverance and flexibility.

What’s Love Got to Do With It?

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | February 10th, 2012 | 1 Comment
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: affirmations, healing, love, meditation, potential, relationship, spiritual practice, spirituality, Tina Turner, universe, Valentine’s Day, What’s Love Got to Do With It?

Sad woman on Valentine’s DayTina Turner sang the successful song “What’s Love Got to Do With It?” Basically, it asked, “Why have a heart when a heart can be broken?”

In a way, I understand the feeling.

A lot of us have had our hearts broken. Many of us more than once. So, now here we are in February and reminders of Valentine’s Day are everywhere. It forces us to think about our relationship status. Are we someone’s valentine? Will we be someone’s valentine? Will our relationship Karma ever change? Will love finally come to us or continue to elude us?

Just Start!

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | January 23rd, 2012 | 1 Comment
topic: Personal Growth | tags: 2012, affirmations, begin, change, commitment, dreams, goals, initiative, intention, intentions, Marianne Williamson, new beginnings, new year, New Year’s resolutions, start, success

Just StartRecently, I was having a conversation with a new friend. We were talking about our shared feeling that 2012 is going to be an incredible year. It was exciting to talk about how very intentional we are about bringing our gifts forward to make a difference in this world. After a few minutes of conversation, she said, “Isn’t it crazy that people often only have these conversations and high intentions at the beginning of the new year?”

Grateful, Grateful

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | November 21st, 2011 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth | tags: affirmations, change, giving back, giving thanks, goals, grateful, gratefulness, gratitude, higher calling, miracles, service, spirituality, thanksgiving, transformation, universe

I am sitting in a hotel in Phoenix, Arizona, at the Celebrate Your Life conference. I have the honor of being here to facilitate two workshops and to participate with a number of speakers and teachers who have inspired me over the years. As I sit here, I am bathed in a sea of gratitude for the amazing life that I am privileged to live.

The Gift in the Shift

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | July 20th, 2011 | 5 Comments
topic: Personal Growth | tags: 2010, 2012, affirmation, affirmations, change, Cynthia James, doubt, fear, growth, healing, inner thoughts, inspiration, life, mantra, Mayan calendar, meditation, predictions, shift, spiritual growth, spirituality, thoughts, transformation, universe

Embrace the gift of change

We are now well into 2011, and many people are deep into the discussion of the shifts occurring on this planet. Some feel they are directly tied to the Mayan Calendar and predictions for 2012. Others feel that we are in the center of a transformational movement unlike any other in history.

I recently spoke at a wonderful conference in Sedona, Ariz. The whole theme was about transcendence and how we navigate the waters of the shifts taking place. As I contemplated my talk, it became clear to me that WE ARE THE GIFT in the shift. Each one of us is here for a unique purpose, and each of us has been given all of the tools that we need to be fulfilled and make a difference on this planet. If that is true, then the question becomes “What is in the way of us soaring?” I believe it is because we are stuck in the muck of consistent mind chatter that tries to convince us that we are victims of inevitable doom. This is fed by the intense news reports, old familial belief systems and inaccurate information passed down from various arenas.

The Responsibility Factor

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | June 15th, 2011 | 2 Comments
topic: Personal Growth | tags: accountability, affirmations, belief, best life, blame, bliss, challenge, creativity, Cynthia James, doubt, empowered, empowerment, fear, growth, inner peace, intention, joy, life, mental, mind, opportunities, Oprah Winfrey, power, responsibility, self confidence, self-esteem, self-love, self-pity, thoughts, transformation, victim, victimization

ResponsibilityOn Oprah Winfrey’s last show she spoke about the many lessons that she has learned over the past 25 years. One thing she said really stuck in my mind. She said, “You are responsible for your life.” Now, I know that we all know that on some level, but do we really understand what that means?

I have practiced what I call “The Responsibility Factor” for many years, and I want to share with you my process. The moment anything happens in my life that is significant, good or challenging, I pause and ask, “What did I do to create this opportunity to grow”? Usually, when I ask that question, the answer comes quickly and easily. When it doesn’t, I sit down and “stream of consciousness” journal. I put down my fears, doubts, concerns, excitement and enthusiasm. What comes out always makes my heart smile, even if I see that I am on the “pity pot.”

New Year’s Wishes for You

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | December 30th, 2010 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth | tags: 2011, affirmation, affirmations, beauty, blessings, change, christmas, faith, freedom, future, gratitude, growth, Hanukkah, holiday, HOPE, intention, journal, joy, life, love, meditation, new year, peace, prayer, Relationships, season, spirituality, thankful, thanks, universe, wishes

 Smiling woman in winter clothing holding a coffee mug

Happy Holidays,

As we moved toward the end of this year, I really began to contemplate how I, personally, wanted to end 2010.

Treasure Every Moment: Connect with Those You Care About

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | April 29th, 2010 | No Comments
topic: Giving Back, Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: affirmations, death, grief, inspiration, spirituality, transition

It's never too late to share how important someone is to you.

Recently, someone I work with made the transition. The death was sudden and unexpected. Many people were shocked, upset and in a state of disbelief. It made me start thinking that we can so easily take people for granted. We can so easily think that they will always be here. In fact, often times we are immersed in unrealistic expectations of others and, when they do not respond as we would like, we move into a state of judgment and blame. We withdraw or push them aside, thinking we will deal with this later.  Sometimes that later never comes.