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5 Steps to Emotional Spring Cleaning

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | April 13th, 2014 | 3 Comments
topic: Personal Growth | tags: affirmation, behavior, change, cleansing, clutter, emotional, emotions, intention, letting go, mental detox, negative patterns, negative thinking, negative thoughts, negativity, personal development, reactions, spring clean, spring cleaning, transformation

emotional spring cleaning

It’s the beginning of spring, when many of us become obsessed with cleaning out closets, drawers, books and clutter. I find it interesting that we are not as excited to embark on a road to “emotional cleansing.” Why not take some time this week to inventory old behaviors and patterns that keep us in a constant state of drama — and clean them out along with the dust bunnies?

A Key to Happiness

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | December 10th, 2013 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: affirmation, authenticity, celebration, desires, gift giving, giving and receiving, happinesss, happy, harmony, heart, holidays, intention, joy, key to happiness, kindness, peaceful actions, peaceful thoughts, respect, share, simple acts, simple and heartfelt gifts, soul, stressful holidays, stressful season, want to be happy, wisdom, without expectation

This is the time of year when people are often either excited to celebrate the holidays or they are feeling a sense of dread about what might be coming during this sometimes stressful season. But the one thing that we all have in common is that we want to be happy.

As I was thinking about happiness, it came to me that a key to happiness involves circulation. By that I mean that true happiness comes from giving and receiving. The kind of sharing that involves the heart and the willingness to share without any expectations.

The Power of Motherly Love

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | May 8th, 2013 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: affirmation, animals, Candice Lightner, children, creation, healing, HOPE, humans, intuition, justice, love, MADD, mothers, Mothers Against Drunk Driving, mothers-day, pain, parenting, persistence, reconciliation, Relationships, separation, trust

Mother and her young son

During the month of May we celebrate Mother’s Day. It is a time when we honor our biological, adopted and surrogate mothers. It is a time when we remember the incredible and awesome nature of the “mother spirit.” Whether it is in the animal kingdom or the family of human beings, most mothers are fierce protectors of their young. They intuitively know when something is happening with their child. I was always amazed when my mother tuned right into me. This wasn’t always good news for me, but it most certainly reminded me that we were connected in an extraordinary way.

Fall in Love … with Yourself!

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | February 13th, 2013 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: affirmation, alone, dating, emotions, February, happiness, love, love yourself, rejection, Relationships, romance, sadness, self-love, soulmate, spirituality, Valentines Day

love yourself

Can you believe it? We’re already halfway into February! I have been getting calls for counseling requests around relationships; Valentine woes and deep feelings of aloneness. I even got a Facebook message from a man challenged with his life choices and loss of love. I am very clear that every person on this planet wants to love and be loved. We all want to feel special, be seen and acknowledged for the beautiful beings that we are. So why is it so hard to “find” love?

5 Ways to Find Faith in Your Daily Life

Nicole Glassman by Nicole Glassman | November 15th, 2012 | 1 Comment
topic: Personal Growth | tags: affirm, affirmation, belief, blood sugar, career, change, coincidence, daily life, destiny, dreams, faith, fear, future, habit, happiness, happy, HOPE, ideal life, inner voice, job, letting go, light, love, mantra, miracles, money, pancreas, personal development, Personal Growth, relationship, self help, signs, success, trust

FaithIt is light in the darkest night. It brings people to their knees. It is symbolic and powerful, yet proof-less and criticized. It illuminates life and it wages war. It escapes some and captivates many. To some it is doctrine, to others it is fiction. It is faith.

Today’s definition of faith doesn’t have to relate to religion; it can be trust or belief in something without proof. But in today’s society, the invisible creates disbelief. People lack faith in all areas of their lives because they are looking for evidence. They are waiting for the ideal job, the perfect relationship and financial abundance. They are looking for something tangible — and as a result, they are still waiting. When the answer doesn’t fall into their laps they become cynical and they lose faith.

If this rings a bell, don’t worry. There are ways to find faith in your daily life. 

Is Your Container Too Small? How to Live a BIG Life

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | November 2nd, 2012 | 4 Comments
topic: Personal Growth | tags: affirmation, anger, big life, blessings, challenge, change, constriction, create space, destiny, emotions, environment, exhaustion, expansion, feel, frustration, give thanks, growing, inner guide, journal, journaling, let go, listen, marriage, peace of mind, Relationships, shift, spiritual disconnection, spirituality, stress, stuck, transformation, work environments

Woman inside a Cardboard Box

In the last few weeks, I have had several clients and other acquaintances who have shared their discontent. Their challenges range from unsatisfying relationships to chaotic work environments to spiritual disconnection to complete exhaustion. As I listened to each person there was a similar question that kept running through my mind: “Is your container too small?”

Releasing Resistance

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | October 4th, 2012 | 2 Comments
topic: Personal Growth | tags: affirmation, change, enlightenment, gifts, habits, healing, journal, life, meditate, meditation, postitive thinking, rejuvenate, resist, resistance, rest, shift, spirituality, thoughts, universe

Releasing Resistance

I took a lot of the summer off to rest and rejuvenate. It was a really powerful time for me and I used it to contemplate and reflect on many areas of my life. It is very interesting to me that when we slow down, the opportunity to witness our thoughts and behaviors amplifies.

One of the things that I noticed is that there are times when I will resist something or someone only to discover that the event or person is bringing me an amazing and unexpected gift. I paused and asked myself to explore the habit of resistance. It’s a habit I often see in my clients, so we work on dismantling the need to resist without reason. And then, here I am, watching the same behavior in myself. (We never really arrive, do we?!)

Be the Change — Share a Blessing

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | September 18th, 2012 | 1 Comment
topic: Inspirational Media, Personal Growth | tags: 2012, affirmation, be the change, community, consciousness, December 21, end of the world, Gandhi, Global Blessing Blog, harmony, love, Mayan calendar, peace, politics, rebirth, religion, shift, spirituality, words

GandhiGandhi said, “Be the change you want to see in the world.”

That statement has been moving through my mind for the past several weeks as I read comments on social media and hear so many people feeling helpless and disillusioned. It’s clear to me that we are living in a time of extreme opposites. There are people doing extraordinary work to bring peace and consciousness to the planet, while at the same time there are also people committed to war and violence.

The real question for me is “How do I want to respond and live?” I believe that we are either part of the problem or we are part of the solution. I also believe that our words have power and that what we put out in the universe eventually returns to us in some form.

So instead of being upset about the state of the world, I have decided to do something, and I would like you to join me.

Are You Addicted to Technology?

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | July 24th, 2012 | 1 Comment
topic: Green Tech, Personal Growth, Relationships | tags: addicted to technology, affirmation, cell phone, computer, digital, disconnect, healing, information age, Internet, log off, meditate, meditation retreat, online, personal development, Personal Growth, real life, reality, self help, soft addiction, spirituality, texting, universe

Addicted to Technology

I want to start this conversation by making the point that I am extremely grateful for the time in which I live. I love information and the many ways that we can access this information.

However, I do want to talk about a question that has been on my mind for some time: As a culture, are we addicted to technology?

Savoring Accomplishments

Cynthia James by Cynthia James | June 22nd, 2012 | 1 Comment
topic: Personal Growth | tags: accomplishments, affirmation, destiny, dreams, give thanks, gratitude, healing, intention, live in the moment, meditation, personal development, Personal Growth, savor, spirituality, successes, Transit of Venus, victories, vision, visualization

Savoring AccomplishmentsLast month, I spoke about the process of my expansion into a new arena of leadership and transformation as I hosted a teleseries for people around the world. Well, the Venus Transit event was June 5, 2012, and it was extraordinarily successful.

Powerful teachers gave their time and talents to support people in stepping through this once-in-a-lifetime portal to experience healing and growth. More than 7,800 people around the globe registered, and a powerful community was created. Participants accessed the call via the Internet and phone for three hours of intentional creation. I want to stop here and say that my team — Lisa Livingstone and Jean Hendry — brought skill, care and excellence to this process in powerful ways. We were all on a steep learning curve and still managed to find the humor and joy in the midst of many unanswered questions.

I am telling you all of this to let you know what happened next. The day after the call, we began to prepare for the Venus Transit University sessions that began on June 11th and continue through the beginning of July. As the conversations moved and tasks were undertaken, I had a thought: “Are you savoring the accomplishment?”

I had to pause and really take in what that meant.