Beliefs are determinant of what one experiences. There are no external 'causes". One discovers the secret payoffs that are obtained from unconscious secret projections. One's underlying programs can be discovered by simply writing down ones litany of grievances and woes and then merely turning them around into their opposites.
"People hate me" stems from one'w own inner hatreds. [...] "People are jealous of me" stems from inner jealousy of others. Thus if we take responsibility for being the author of our world, we come close to its source where we can correct it. By being loving toward others, we discover we are surrounded by love and lovingness. ...
Source: "The I"
Contributed by: Artemisilke