When your at peace with yourself and you love your self, its virtually impossible for you to do things to yourself that are destructive.
When you get enough inner peace and feel really positive about yourself, its almost impossible for you to be controlled or manipulated by anyone else.
the more you extend kindness to yourself the more it will become your natural response to others
A secret of abundance is to stop focussing on what you do not have and shift your consciousness to an appreciation for all that you do have
No limit people are so in charge that theycan trust their instincts, be childlike, be creative and do anything that makes sense to them.
Source: staying on the path by dr wayne w dyer
Contributed by: richard