Instead of being more organized or controlling in your approach, allow for serendipity. Happy accidents happen when you look side to side or up, not always forward. Don't stop planning. Rather step out of the tunnel. Put yourself in situations that allow for the unexpected. Life is situationally driven. Learning happens in context. Be ready when opportunities arise. The more space you've cleared in your life for something new, the more right things will happen. More or less.
Source: Fast Company Experts Blog: More or Less: http://blog.fastcompany.com/experts/mconner/2007/12/more_or_less.html
Contributed by: ~C4Chaos