Bottom line is, even if you see 'em coming, you're not ready for the big moments. No one asks for their life to change, not really. But it does. So what are we, helpless? Puppets? No. The big moments are gonna come. You can't help that. It's what you do afterwards that counts. That's when you find out who you are. You'll see what I mean.
Why go through all the trouble to dig up 3 girls only to chop them up and throw them away? It doesn't make any sense. Especially from a time management stand point.