People who point there fingers at others, should listen more to people who point there fingers up and around. The difference between the two, is that pointing around makes you know all around you. Pointing at someone else, is just desperately trying to project images of your believes to others.
As a theoretical physicist I like to wander purposelessly through laboratories and see the magical contraptions realizing my minds passion. It is reassuring to see what I am all doing it for. The reality that is.
The reason why social life is complicated, is because your parents superimpose certain values and norms. Whereas such values, alike the once most people get told by religion. Aren't real and not accurate to present date. The confusion of such a discovery makes people cling to working methodology, simplifying their life but disabling the self-contemplation part of their minds. In so, people become one big generalisation machine just confusing, as there are more exceptions than rules. Because real life comes closer to science than anything else.
Eventually I was disgusted of how fake most people live their lives. How sturdily set they are on concepts and Idea's, not even their own. And live their lives by them, without regarding their validity upon their own lives. Not a self made image, of how you should be. (the Ego) But worse, an image of how you should be.
If you ever want to drop a self image, which is never who you really are. You will need to know how it has gotten there. It will take time and effort to self explore.
Physicists take a big problem, make it smaller with smart reasoning, approximate it and then solve it. Whereas Mathematicians, take a seemingly small problem, expand it beyond recognition and prove they cannot solve it.