Loosen Up! How to Stretch Your Way to Flexibility

Jill Miller by Jill Miller | May 24th, 2011 | 8 Comments
topic: Fitness, Yoga

Flexibility yoga blog

A few months ago I wrote a blog on the perils of overstretching that seemed to strike a chord with many of my students and readers. But for every overstretched yogi or yogini out there, there are four times as many folks who are bound up and moving like the tin man! Most folks I meet want to know how they can become more flexible, not less flexible. So I dedicate this blog to all of you who wish to become more supple and mobile. Let the bending begin!

Phase 1: Your muscles are tight. Tight-person anatomy lesson 101.

Hamstring stretch

Not everyone’s hamstrings enjoy this stretch!

Do any of these describe you?

  • You recognize that you cannot stretch as far as you did when you were playing high school sports.
  • You attend a yoga class with your niece and are sore for days in lots of “weird” places.
  • Stretching hurts. It really hurts.

To understand what causes all that misery and tension, we have to understand a little basic muscle physiology. Take a breath; this can get a little “heady.”

1. Muscles are designed to contract. Yes, they actually love contracting, and they resist being told to lengthen. Your muscle cells (also called fibers) contain a special stretch receptor that receives signals from your nervous system via a motor neuron. When this signal is “ON” it tells those fibers to shorten. The fibers do what they’re told and remain in a shortened state unless that signal is turned “OFF.” There are many motor neurons assigned to each and every muscle in your body. Your brain decides how many neurons to assign to a task. Much of the time only some of the fibers within a muscle will contract because you may not need as many contracting muscle cells to lift a feather as you would a kettlebell.

But sometimes, our nervous system tells certain parts of your muscles to stay stiff and contracted. This is “unconscious tension,” and regular stretching is one of the best ways to help calm down that unconscious firing.

2. Muscles lengthen too, but not on their own! So when your brain tells the motor neurons to turn off, the muscle can stop contracting and be easily pulled into a stretch by two major assistive forces: 1) the position of the body and 2) the lengthening of the surrounding muscles coupled with the seeping of the connective tissues that permit the muscle to physically elongate and lengthen. Have I lost you yet? Take a deep breath, re-read and read on.

3. Muscles are surrounded and penetrated by fascia. Our muscle fibers and tissues are surrounded by a living cobweb-like blanket called fascia. Fascia is loaded with collagen and elastin fibers that are enrobed in liquids. This fascia is not an inert tissue — it responds and gives signals to the nervous system, and also assists (or restricts) movement of the muscles that it encases. When a muscle remains shortened, these fascias also shorten and can actually lose their liquids and become dehydrated and brittle and less able to “seep” and elongate.

4. What do we feel when we feel a stretch? So when you are stretching a tight muscle, you are actually feeling two main things. 1) you may be feeling the muscle’s natural resistance to being pried open, which is the stretch receptors within the muscle attempting to remain contracted (can someone please turn off my motor neuron!). 2) You are feeling the shortened and dehydrated fascias also lengthening and releasing a bit of heat.

Phase 2: You need to stretch more. Seriously, you need to stretch more.

Hamstring StretchSorry to spoil the fun, but flexibility is a “use it or lose it” type of thing. When you don’t stretch, you keep your muscles in a chronically shortened state. Your muscles and fascias adapt to the way you use them, and over time, these soft tissues will start affecting the alignment of your joints. When those joints start wearing out because of inefficient movement patterns, you can develop osteoarthritis, bone spurs and other painful inflammatory responses and injuries. All because you didn’t stretch enough.

Stretching isn’t just for athletes, or ballerinas, or yogis. Sitting at your desk, gardening, filing papers — these activities all involve repetitive actions that over-work some muscles while under-working others. Those over-worked muscles will benefit from stretching as they will be restored to a more functional length.

Phase 3: There’s more than one way to stretch!

The good news is that there are a multitude of ways to stretch those muscles and fascias. Stretching can be a fun and variety-filled activity. No really, it’s fun!

Here is a “menu” of different ways to stretch your body — some familiar and some novel approaches, but all very good for your tight tissues.

1. Static stretching is still and statue-like, like you would do in yoga.

2. Dynamic stretching involves continuous motion.

3. With passive stretching, someone else stretches you. Hooray! Activities such as Thai massage are a form of stretching.

Self massage with balls is a form of stretching!

4. Self-massage using balls eradicates tightness quickly by providing a “mini-stretch” that pinpoints specific knots, or trigger points, within the muscles and can provide a deep penetrating stretch into hard-to-reach places. Often called yoga balls or therapy balls, these are portable “stretchers” that can be used anywhere, anytime — even at your desk!

5. Foam rollers are another great method of stretching the larger muscles of the body.

6. Stretching can be aided by using strong elastic bands to create traction and joint movement.

Phase 4: Stretching becomes a way of life.

Look around at your environment to aid you in a stretch.

1. Lean back in your desk chair and arch your back with your arms reaching to the sky once every 30 minutes.

2. Walk into a stairwell and let your heels hang off a step to stretch your calves.

3. Stand in a doorway and place your palms on the sides of the door frame and step through to stretch your chest.

4. Lastly, join the “stealth club” like my friend Kelly Starret who manages to incorporate his stretching routine while at a night club!

So what are you waiting for? Loosen up!


  1. This is such an incredible and throughout explanation of how the muscles like to behave themselves. It is very interesting to see that we truly have many different dishes on the plate of stretching, from the static through self-care techniques all the way down to the dynamic forms of stretching. I strongly believe this is a type of article that truly need to reach very wide audience, so people (especially tight tight man) can overcome their fear of stretching, because it ”hurts”.

    Dagmar Khan | May 25th, 2011 | Comment Permalink
  2. i am currently getting help- mayo fascia release, my yoga practice is spent at the moment releasing muscles from years of athletic abuse- i can’t wait to move into being able to stretch and move through yoga poses- ? dehydrate fascia, is water the best way to go. i make sure to drink lots- of water, especially with my treatments- is there anything else i should be doing??

    kari | May 25th, 2011 | Comment Permalink
  3. Releasing locked up muscles is assisted by deep conscious breathing and decreasing stress in your life. Muscles stay bound up when the mind is full of tension. Find ways to soothe yourself and pamper yourself every day. Have patience; it took years to get tight….prying your muscles “loose” will also take time. Good Luck!

    Jill Miller | May 25th, 2011 | Comment Permalink
  4. This article of overstretching has hit home with me. Since I teach yoga and am demonstrating constantly, I am doing way more than I did when I took classes for myself 3-4 times a week! I get periods when my hamstrings, psoas, glutes and quads just ache – reminds me of when I used to get monthly cramps years ago! That deep, dull aching. And you are right – it is extremely difficult to find a comfortable sitting position at times. And, my sitting bones hurt, too! Do you have recommendations as to what types of leg work will offset this? Is walking good at all? How long do I need to stay away from the stretching while I do other work? Or do I just ‘barely’ stretch? I have to have those micro-tears going on…you know, I just love Yin yoga, too…makes sense….

    Martie Schoener | May 25th, 2011 | Comment Permalink
  5. Hi Martie, ah yes…..it definitely sounds like over-stretching. Walking IS a great thing to do…but I would suggest walking uphill and also walking with resistance cords around your ankles every now and again to build some more muscle. I truly urge you to cut back on stretching and add some more resistance based activities into your “practice. I promise you won’t “lose” the yoga, your body will become healthier and be able to practice sustainably for longer. I have a DVD I created that’s GREAT for strength building, it’s called Yoga Tune Up “Post Athletic Stretch” and while it does involve stretching, it also targets common weak spots in the body and helps to rebuild better muscle function: http://www.yogatuneup.com/products/quickfix-yoga-dvds
    Stay in touch!

    Jill Miller | May 26th, 2011 | Comment Permalink
  6. I remember starting to stretch when I was around 12 or 13. I had started playing basketball and volleyball and during the 5 minute part of the practice where we stretched I felt like such an underachiever. Some of my teammates had so much more mobility than me, and since my little town had no other movement programs other than sports, I couldn’t understand how they got so bendy. Is it genetic? Did their muscles contain a different ingredient than mine? Thanks for finally answering my question in the Tune Up manual. I learned that I probably have more white cell muscle fibers, which explains a lot about the sports I excelled at and the ones I didn’t. Very cool.

    laurelyoga | April 25th, 2012 | Comment Permalink
  7. My body is so tight I can’t do nothing,, please help to get flexible I’m so tired of this body

    dee | January 21st, 2016 | Comment Permalink
  8. How often should you stretch? I have lower back pain from tight muscles and other aches as well, all from tight muscles. How long do I stretch before I begin to feel relief? I know this is a life long endeavour, but I am so tired of the pain. I have been checked by a doctor, had an MRI, no herniated discs, only the beginning of osteo arthritis.

    Heidi | January 27th, 2016 | Comment Permalink

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