Is it Wise to Reconnect?

Arielle Ford by Arielle Ford | March 14th, 2012 | No Comments
topic: Personal Growth, Relationships

thoughtful womanDear Arielle & Brian,

Since I read The Soulmate Secret, did the exercises to heal my past relationships and cut the energetic cords to past lovers, four of my old boyfriends and my former husband have called wanting to reconnect with me. What’s up with that?

Thanks for your help,


Dear Cindy,

Congratulations! The inner healing you are doing is working and the energetic dynamic is shifting. The art and majesty of your rituals and powerful intentions are literally transmuting the energetic density that was weighing down the possibility of unconditional sacred love and abundance in your previous relationships. These men are now actually feeling different about themselves as well as feeling something new and different about their earlier experience with you.

This doesn’t mean that you are totally free to re-engage in these relationships (unless you carefully come to the realization that one of them is your soulmate) but it does mean that you are freed up to lovingly and seriously discern, from your deepest heart, so as to gain greater clarity on the issues that previously impacted these relationships. As you continue to do the inner and outer work for manifesting a soulmate, the opportunities for more and more healing will spontaneously arise. Enjoy the process!

Arielle & Brian

Arielle Ford has spent the past 25 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is the author of the international bestselling book, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. Her husband and soulmate Brian Hilliard is a business consultant with a life-long interest in spirituality and the practice of compassion. They live in La Jolla, CA. For more information, visit and

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